ARE WE REALLY SO SUPERFICIAL THAT WE FEEL BETTER ABOUT OURSELVES BY GETTING COMPLIMENTS FROM A MACHINE!!!??? I DON'T THINK SO!

Seems harmless enough, unless it is annoying. I don't think I need an artificial ego stroke, but who knows? Maybe it will help others?

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Actually, its called "self-talk" and it's this running dialogue we have in our heads that has a powerful effect on our self esteem and MOOD !
If we want to boost our moods and even change behavior, we need to start with the things we "tell" ourselves in our heads all day long. This is a proven psychotherapy method.

Stupid idea....a sincere compliment is all that counts....from a human being! I can visualize it now...a blind woman wearing sunglasses walks by and the Ipod says, "You have lovely eyes"! Duh...

Keep it right next to your dildo.

compliments should be sincere & from the heart... not habitual or automated. This does remind me that people like compliments....If you think something nice about someone.. Say It!

I tried this crap because I'm unpopular and thought it would keep the bullies from attacking me; everyone saw through it as the pathetic attempt to butt-kiss my way out of getting tortured that it was, and made my problem worse. I was better off keeping my mouth shut and doing what I always do; run like a banshee when I see a jerk heading my way.

Karenjean, my 16 yod has studied JUDO since she was 11 and she NEVER has to deal with jerks at her school, although she attends a school with 70% minority students who have horrible attitudes. It is KNOWN that she studies JUDO and they leave her alone. Try taking self-defense classes in your area, as they do alot to increase confidence.

THAT'S TERRIBLE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

sounds lame.

To LEE (#8): "with 70% minority students who have horrible attitudes"? You mean you've spent considerable one-on-one time with each one of these students, and judged every individual as having a horrible attitude? Where do you find the time?

Try taking prejudice and bigotry courses in your area, as they do a lot to increase intelligence.

to #8, with a racist attitude like yours, why are you surprised that your daughter is having a difficult time? i guess the apple indeed does not fall far from the tree. you want to see horrible attitude? go look in the mirror.

First of all...Karenjean...a BANSHEE does not RUN...it pursues ! I would also like to agree with all others here who have commented that a genuine, heartfelt compliment is most desired, by most ! No one likes a "brown-noser" . A compliment that is given without honestly is worth absolutely NOTHING and I believe leaves the one recieving it with a feeling of sadness rather than a feeling of happiness and self-worth.

SICK !!! Where are we heading to? A machine that compliments, (people who buy it) a toy for sex, a cell phone for text, emails , etc What an empty world we live in.. Very sad.

Lee (#8), you're an ass. I hope your daughter gets knocked out by someone in that other 30%....then maybe someone from the 70% can kick her while she's down. Wouldn't that be great? Minorities and Non-Minorities working together against idiots like you and your daughter. Bigot.

Hey, I need all the help I can get! Wherever it comes from.

Do you ALL have to be pessimistic? Look at the positive side. For someone that is clinicaly depressed hearing a positive message, no matter who or what its from, is good. If you continue to hear a compliment you start believing it and therefore will have a more positive attitude towards themselves. And to number eight, I hear you. My daughter goes to a school with 90% minority students and its hard. They tend to gang up on the better off kids for no reason. My daughter is a black belt in three different forms of martial arts so they don't mess with her most of the time.

Hi, I attend a public school where most of the students are minority... But in reality I am one of the minority because I am WHITE. THEY are the raciest ones of the bunch! So I know what #8's daughter goes through....

#8, This is something I'd like my daughter to do. She has Asperger's Syndrome, and has been picked on for YEARS now, some I know are things she takes the wrong way and doesn't understand, but others, these kids are just MEAN!!!!!!!!!!

I used to get so annoyed when the instructor on a work-out tape would say "You're doing great!" Like how did they know I wasn't watching from my recliner? Big phonies! But then, as time went on, I began to see that the words of encouragement were helpful. I really couldn't care less how sincere/insincere a compliment is; I appreciate them all!