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I'm 47 and Starting To Date Again, What Are Some Key Pieces to Own? - Ask the Editor

by Sarah Cristobal (Subscribe to Sarah Cristobal's posts)
Posted Jan 26th 2010 at 7:35PM  
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When you're rebuilding your wardrobe, go back to basics like this denim pencil skirt from the Gap ($54.50). Photo: Courtesy of the Gap

Q: I'm soon to be 47 and would like to change my wardrobe. What are some key pieces to own that are casual but can be dressed up for the evening? I'm 5'1", like tailored clothes, but don't like pumps or extreme high heels. I need help so I can start dating again.

A: Congrats on getting back into the dating game! Building out your wardrobe is all about focusing on the basics.

To help explain the best items to choose, I've enlisted stylist Meg Goldman who worked with us on both the Rockettes and Winter Coats shoots. Here's what she has to say:

"You probably already own three of the most basic and versatile wardrobe pieces. Consider them the keys to a closet full of options: a great fitting pair of jeans for your body, a slim skirt either in black or denim, and a cardigan sweater in lightweight wool or a cotton blend.

For maximum wear, make sure your jeans are in a dark rinse without any extra embellishment (no rips, shredding, fading, zippers, studs etc). Instead concentrate on finding the most flattering shape for your figure. No matter your size or weight go for the slimmest, most fitted cut you feel comfortable in. Another plus with a slim or skinny jean, you have many more options of shoes to wear them with: anything from a tall boot to tuck your jeans into, a strappy not so high heel, or a flat ballet slipper.

A straight fitting, knee-length denim skirt or black straight skirt can be worn with just about any blouse or sweater for day and switched for a sexier silk or lace top for evening.

For day pair that skirt with an opaque tight, for evening change to some patterned hosiery.

Throw on a light-weight cardigan with either top option and the look will change again. Make sure you choose a cardigan that skims the body. In general, baggy loose fitting tops look less polished and tend to loose their shape the more you wear them, resulting in an unflattering look.

To dress up your cardigan for evening, try layering on some chain necklaces of different lengths. If you own pearls - either real or fake - you can mix those in too. Another option is to belt it around the waist. A thin chain or patent leather cincher adds some sparkle for evening but can also be worn for day with your jeans and a T-shirt."


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kayeknust, 1-27-2010, 10:36PM

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kayeknust

i think the most inportant thing to wear is a smile and confidence. wear something simple and whatever makes you comfortable.(just not pajamas:) dress it up with accessories.

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dsherline, 1-30-2010, 2:41PM

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Here we go again. Fashion choices decided by age. Shouldn't fashion choices be based more on our physical shape than our age?

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Ayesha, 1-30-2010, 3:46PM

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I don't think you want to see your grandma in goth clothes or stilettos and a mini skirt just because it's her sense of style. So age does play an important role in fashion!

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debby82198, 1-30-2010, 7:04PM

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I am 51 yrs. old, far from looking that age and I wear my jeans, dark jeans, light jeans,worn out jeans and I totally agree if you can wear those high heels are in good shape, why not. I have always worn jeans,that is me. When I got dressed for work I always had high heels on with a skirt, dress or pant suit.
So I say if you got it flaunt it. It is who you are. I am very hip being 51 and hopefully will be able to wear what I want and the hell with anybody that doesn't like it.
That's all. I do have 3 children and they can't understand that I am so into jeans. I am a jeans person all the way , always was and always will be. If I do have grandkids, I will still wear my jeans.

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susan, 1-30-2010, 5:02PM

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susan

The problem is that about 1% of forty seven year olds have the figure to pull that off. That suggestion seems crazy.

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BigD, 1-30-2010, 5:13PM

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BigD

and by the way wear a bra....cause NO MAN wants his boob's in his soup..If u kno what i mean

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Ginger, 1-30-2010, 8:07PM

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Ginger

Um...480 bucks for a necklace? 235 for a pair of jeans? Who can afford that stuff?

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