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Sesame Street 'I Love My Hair' Video: A Priceless Message for Black Girls

by Dana Oliver (Subscribe to Dana Oliver's posts)
Posted Oct 15th 2010 at 4:30PM  
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"Sesame Street" has a permanent place in my heart thanks to its latest song, "I Love My Hair."

The popular children's television series recently aired a segment starring a brown Muppet rocking an Afro, pink dress, beaded earrings and necklace. She sings a tune about loving her curly locks -- bouncing onto the screen, beaming with energy, and belting out: "Don't need a trip to the beauty shop. 'Cause I love what I got on top. It's curly and it's brown and it's right up there! You know what I love? That's right, my hair! I really love my hair!"

Yes, we can all agree that the video is really cute, but it also made me cry. Here's why.

For black girls like myself this is an important lesson in embracing our natural hair, in spite of what society has historically deemed beautiful (read: straight, long hair).

Growing up, my perception of beauty was molded by my mother, grandmother, aunts, and cousins, along with the countless issues of Ebony, Jet, and Essence I feverishly ingested, featuring gorgeous brown women in the hottest African-American hairstyles.

Like my new Muppet friend, over my twenty-some years I've rocked my jet black strands in various dos, including cornrows, braids, ponytails, the press-n-curl, two-strand twists, and candy curls -- see my hair-story in the image below.


My hair through the years: from long ponytails to sleek and straight strands to kinky curls. Courtesy Photos


But as a pre-teen, my kinky strands were laid down flat onto my scalp thanks to a chemical hair relaxer -- one of the hair straightening processes that I would later come to regret, as it destroyed my curl pattern, making it very hard for me to wear my hair naturally again.

You see, I recently embarked on a hair journey to revive my curls after getting bored with the polished, broadcaster's look. Tired of wearing my strands bone-straight and looking like "everyone else," I stopped using the flat iron for six months, wore my hair in protective hairstyles like braids and twists, and then had a big chop three months ago to remove the straggling straight ends so that my curls could grow back healthy and strong.

And while it took over a decade for me to embrace my natural hair, when I watch this two-minute "Sesame Street" video, I can't help but fight back the tears as it sends a much-needed message to young black girls at a pivotal point in their development that will reaffirm why they should love what they've got on top.

Who knows if I would've yielded to the hot comb or "kiddie" relaxer had I been exposed to such a positive image of black hair at an early age. I can only hope that little girls who've watched this segment on PBS know that, as the Muppet sings, "there's nothing else that can compare to their hair."

Do you love your hair? Leave a comment below telling us how you truly feel about your locks.
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Beth, 10-19-2010, 3:43PM

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Beth

Don't worry. Continue trying to keep down your lunch. I will turn away and turn my attention to the men who have no problems with the way I look in my natural hair. By the way it was a black man who forwarded this video to me. :)

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Shoefly, 10-15-2010, 5:33PM

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Thank you for running this article and recognizing the beauty of natural curls -- and, by extension, the loveliness of each person feeling good in his or her own skin!

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Lynn, 10-19-2010, 4:33PM

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Nicole, get a grip! Just because the puppet is African-American doesn't mean that ALL girls can't relate. I wish some one had given me the message that my natural hair was great when I was a child. I'm a white woman who was unhappy with her hair since childhood because my mother always was trying to curl my straight hair. Finally when I was in my 20's I stopped the perms and embraced the straightness of my natural hair.

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hope1274, 10-19-2010, 4:31PM

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Nicole, I did not see this at all as a slight against non-black hair. There are people of all nationalities who have 'our' or a similar type of hair. And if you can bring yourself to look beyond the puppets' color, and hear the message of self love in the song, I think you might have a different opinion about this.

And to give you another example: if Sesame Street had a puppet in a wheelchair proclaiming how they loved themselves and all the things that they can do in their wheelchair, would you have been angry or offended that she wasn't a puppet who uses a walker? Or who has a physical deformity? Why must this be a competition between black girls and white girls? Why can't you just be happy with the positive message that comes out of this...for ALL little girls who struggle to accept and love their natural hair texture, color, curl pattern, straightness, etc?

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tjfrompa, 10-19-2010, 4:44PM

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To Nicole,

Last night on World News with Diane Sawyer, They had a story about the head writer of Sesame Street who is a white male who happens to have an african daughter with natural hair. His daughter wished she had long blonde hair that would sway from side to side just like Barbie's. She wondered why hers wasn't like that and felt that her own natural hair wasn't good or beautiful enough. This inspired him to created this character. He wanted his daughter and other girls of color who feel ashamed of their natural curls to feel good about themselves and their hair. Just thought I'd pass that along.

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andrea, 10-20-2010, 1:35PM

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Nicole, that was a realy wack comment first of all. And secondly, you fail to realize that this message can reach all minority children who dont fit the anglo-norm. And lastly, you should teach your daughters that this lil brown girl is NO different than them and they should be able to relate too, to a lil girl loving herself.

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dsaqt4life, 10-19-2010, 6:52PM

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to nicole wah! wah! you sound like a baby. sesame street deals with all sorts of issues and talks about all sorts of ethnicities. did you whine when they had spanish speaking characters or anything like that. why do people like you come out of the woodwork only when it has to do with black people. you're the same type of person who complains about black history month but seems to forget hispanic heritage month or asian american heritage month. black people are still a minority just like these other groups.

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Gabriella, 5-03-2011, 10:47PM

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Yes, thanks so much 4 putting this up! I just recently cut my dreadlocs off after 8 years, and in 8th grade at a predominantly white school it was petty hard. I'm pretty much wearing cornrows in the front with two-strand twists or an afro in the back, and no one really "gets" my hair, and so it's great to see that there are people that are just like me! This is my new favorite song =)

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Fran, 10-15-2010, 10:10PM

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This is Chantylla Chauncey Johnson, the adorable African American girl who is the singer on Sesame Street " I Love my Hair". Chantylla "Chauncey" Johnson is an amazing vocalist, she has appeared on Broadway in The Color Purple and The Lion King. Chantylla, better known as Chauncey is being interview by othertalk shows, magazines, and newspapers about her experience with this project. she is making history for other young African American girls and is telling her own story about loving her hair. Please contact us at the e-mail address to set up an appointment we would love to interview withl your paper. By the way we love your article. A picture of Chantylla "Chauncey" Johnson is attached for your review.


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moran, 10-17-2010, 2:11PM

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Hi, loved ones: Bet you that you were not expecting a response from an elderly white lady, but here I am. Advice to you all: Please just go with your natural attributes. You have no idea what intrinsic beauty lies therein.

In case you might ask what my motivation is, well, I'll just say please let's not be co-opted into the mainstream of the beauty/fashion/hollywood world where black hair must be straightened, gray hair must be colored, and normal signs of the natural process of aging must be corrected by surgery and cosmetic repair.

OK, got it. I'm whistling in the wind. But just so's ya know, there's someone like me who cares about staying in tune with life as it is, without capitulating to the outrageous demands of the present commercial scene. Bye. Am on the verge of giving up.

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Ky, 10-19-2010, 5:04PM

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@moran - don't give up! You're right, and you're not alone in thinking so. Everyone - Female or male, every color, every age - has something beautiful to celebrate. We need to stop thinking plastic, surgically-enhanced, fake, filled-in and dyed is beautiful.

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JoySav, 10-19-2010, 11:49AM

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I wish this would really go virul, we have a lot of little girls because of their mothers who are not happy with how they look and their hair. Both my daughter rock their natural hair at 21 and 12 and don't have any complaints, I will never let them use chemicals my oldest tried and had the worst experience of her life and has now been chemical free for five years.

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rocnrolla75, 10-18-2010, 9:43PM

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As a latina w/fairly curly hair I've always been aware of how 'different' my look is compared to what may be considered the norm. I gladly & proudly wear my hair just as it is meant to be. We should all be comfortable in our own skin, with the attributes our parents blessed us with. I get many wonderful compliments oh my 'do, because it isn't common.

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angelsmessenger7, 10-19-2010, 6:13PM

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I'm really thankfull that seasame street brought up this subject, and before it's too late also. I'm a freshman in High School and I've been thinking about perming my hair, but I was unsure. This article and these comments really boosted my confidence. I've decided I'm not going to relax my hair. I've realized that todays standards of beauty is seriously disoriented. Just because you don't have straight hair, big boobs and are skinny doesn't mean you aren't beautiful. God created us in his eye, and if he thinks we're beautiful, we are beautiful. And that is the only opinion that truly matters.

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SJ, 10-20-2010, 9:15PM

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I am a white woman with curly hair. All through middle school I was taunted and teased by other children because my curly hair was a wreck as I didn't know how to style it nicely. I am so happy that I never got it straightened or tried to use any chemicals on it. Now I know how to take care of it and it's my favorite thing about my appearance. While the teasing and taunting may have built character in me, I hope my children will not have to deal with the same thing. I wish we could teach all children not to be so concerned with physical appearance and to love themselves and others for who they are rather than how well they conform to someone else's perception of physical beauty.

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K.C., 10-19-2010, 2:23AM

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My mother is a retired principal from an inner-city school. I used to ask her why she wore her African garb and afro-style hair do's since, hair trends in the United States depict straight do's and chemically relaxed hair styles. She explained that it was for the sake of her students especially,the young black girls who had self-esteem issues. She explained that often times young Black girs received peer pressue from other black girls and even their parents to straighten their hair. The many reasons for changing their hair include; from making the hair more manageable, attempting to "fit in" and also the old saying to have "good hair" because "good hair was better. Those of us who have some common sense know that no grade of hair texture is better than another's . What my mother wanted to convey with wearing the African garb and Afro was a sense of acceptance and self-esteem as a Black women. My mother wanted black girls to get use to seeing a black women proud of her heritage and also of her hair. Now, even though she maintained this attitude till her recent retirement. (40 years in education) I her daughter was the complete opposite. During my 20's and 30"s you would not catch me without a "fresh perm" or weave. A couple of years ago I "Got with myself" on several issues in my life. This include my image of myself. I needed to make changes that would benefit me. This being one of them. Loving myself without the fake hair. I am so glad that more positive encouragement is being embraced from Black celebrities on the issue of hair. For instance, Chris Rock's movie Good Hair gives a behind the scene look into the "fake hair industry and how lucrutive it is to the Chinese and those from India. It also shows the issues many blacks tip toe over, the issue of the "Good hair" theory has been around since the Willy Lynch promotion in 1877. It's so sad to see that other countries are making money off Black people's desire to transform their hair. Not that it is wrong all together, but realizing that some do need it for issues arising from surgery chemotherapy etc. I am speaking on those Black who opt for this fake hair with no real need to have it. For those of us who do not need to purchase hair, we need to learn to love ourselves and our distinctive hair. Do you realize the Chinese corner stores are living well off the desire of Blacks to purchase and use "fake" hair? More black celebrities and the media should promote a positive theme for our young black girls and also the older generation to love ourselves that includes our textured/ethnic and or Afro-textured hair! I am 40 years old now well out of the 20s and 30s. I finally got rid of the the weaves and the ponytails. Now I am experiencing a contentment and love for myself that only a black woman with Afro-texture hair could experience which is love for who I am!! A beautiful Black woman not pretending anymore! I love washing and conditioning my Afro-textured hair. When I comb my hair I comb it NOT with resentment but with love. Each stroke is not with roughness and unnecessary pressure, I DO NOT think to myself OH this Nappy hair! those were negative thoughts that were installed in us from years of other blacks who subconsiously hated their hair. NO! Now, I embrace my Afro-textured hair and I have changed the way I think of my hair so that it effects the way I treat my hair. I lovingly brush and comb my natural hair every morining and, I style my hair with curling iron or flat iron WITHOUT the chemical treatments. I have resloved to maintain my natural hair with the option to change the hairstyle but,I will not change the true structure of my hair. In other words, when I wash and blow dry my hair it is still Afro-textured and not chemically altered. I have resloved to also, leave if a hair dresser pulls or rakes my hair as though my hair texture is a nusisance because most Black beauticians encourage their clients to get their hair relaxed. I have recently found a great salon that works with natural hair textures. I am so happy!! It's like rediscovering my beautiful blackness hidden away for so long. NOw get ready because here is the kicker!
I am of mixed heritage but with AFro-textured hair! but, I am still loving my hair more and more every day!

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Bree Lucas, 10-19-2010, 10:21AM

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Awesome. It brought me to tears!!

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Michelle, 10-19-2010, 2:19PM

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Thank you for sharing your story. I do not believe that there are many people in this world that are truly happy with theirselves. No matter what we have, we want something different. I love a natural afro and would love to know what it is like but my hair is straight.
I am so happy that this story has gone viral. I hate to know that people are destroying their own beauty just to try to be like everyone else. I am in my thirties and am slowly coming around to loving myself as well. All women are not supposed to look the same. We all have our own flavor and beauty. All of our lives the media has told us what we are supposed to look like. We are not barbie dolls! I applaude you for going natural and I hope that many more people will follow in this. Hair comes in all different shades and textures- all of which are beautiful!

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Peggy, 10-19-2010, 5:50PM

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Thank you, thank you from the bottom of my heart. I'm raising my 5-year old biracial great-granddaughter, and she has a headful of Afro hair. Since she was a baby I've searched for answers on the best way to handle it, even talking to friendly strangers. You've given me the answer--no more "relaxing"--and I'm going to be sure she hears this song. We will try to go forward in a less anxious and more affirming manner. Thank you again, from both of us.

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DZ, 10-19-2010, 8:22PM

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There is freedom in self acceptance! I am so happy for your journey of self love and acceptance.

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